I grew up in a small town in Northern New Jersey, Pompton Lakes, population probably 12,000 at the time. My Mom and Dad were both born in NJ, Mom in Midvale, and Dad in what was called Franklin Township, or Wycoff today. Dad was a carpenter early on, his dad a mason before he ultimately went to work for DuPont at a local manufacturing facility. Mom took charge of focusing on the five children.
The focus on the children would become increasingly important in January 1969 when George, second oldest and oldest male, was killed in Vietnam. Six months prior, Sue, the oldest, graduated college and in September started teaching in the town we all grew up in. The younger three, ages 10, 8, and 6 at the time, became Mom's focus. To say this hit my Dad hard is a massive understatement, one in which he likely never fully recovered from and which changed his personality and demeanor.
For me, I was the middle of the bottom three and a classic middle child. I did manage to graduate high school as an honor student and then studied Psychology at Seton Hall University in South Orange, NJ, graduating in 1983.
After entering the workforce, I also ran for local political office and won a City Council seat in November 1983. I was re-elected three years later before being relocated to Texas in 1988 by The Travelers Insurance Company. At Travelers, I stepped into mid-level management positions that further shaped my leadership path and advanced my career trajectory greatly.